So you've got her number and mustered up the courage to ask her out. Now what? It's well known that a terrible first date spells the end of your interaction with her, but what if you desire to go beyond the usual status quo? This is a problem many men find themselves in when they find someone actually special to them. We all have spots that we take our usual flings, but sometimes you have to up the ante. Something... different.
Revisit Past Conversations
If you two spent a lot of time texting before your first outing, this step may come easier for you. This shouldn't be that hard to recall some of the main interests that you all revealed to each other. Often people forget about the "getting-to-know-you" banter that was done to get the first date, but in reality, it can supply some of the best material for shaping it. If she revealed that she's an avid rock climber, show her you're game by challenging her to a climb off at a local spot. Not only will this grow the relationship by showing that you align with her interests, but it also shows that you are paying attention to what she's saying (all women want to be listened to).
Do Some Research
Do you know why most guys can only think of dinner and a movie for date ideas? It starts and ends with ignorance. They are not aware of the events going on in their city, so they rely on things that stay constant and will always be there. Don't be that lazy; if you actually have a good time, it will exude from you and take a tremendous amount of pressure off of you. There are plenty of wine tastings, beer festivals, concerts, and other special events that cities hold to beef up the surrounding nightlife. All it takes is a little effort on your part to seek them out.
Don't Be Cliche'
I hate that I even had to put this up here, but nothing says "average joe" like taking a girl somewhere she's already been before, doing the same thing she's already done. If you think it'll be different with you because you’re just that funny, and you look so much better than everyone else, you might be right. But most likely you're wrong, so why risk it? Half the battle is showing that you are at least willing to try something different. Even if it's not something out of a Disney movie, she will appreciate that you aren't the hapless guy that sticks to the formula. It may work for the basic girl, but dinner + alcohol + your place = not good enough for any woman with real options. Here is a list of great first-date ideas that you will actually enjoy as well.
First Date Homeruns
Go-Karting
Hookah Bar
Paintball
Laser Tag
Glow in the Dark Bowling
Fondue Bar
Beer / Wine / Music Festival
Aquarium
Improv / Comedy Show
Top Golf / Putt Putt Golf / Batting Cages
Art Exhibition
Karaoke
Pretend Tourists
Amusement Park/ Water park
A Themed Dance Club (Salsa/Reggae/Rave)
A Sporting event
Rock Climbing
Outdoor Mall
Now you’re all set to make some magic.