A few weeks ago, I was introduced to a game that I personally thought was ingenious and worth sharing with all men looking to make the most out of their everyday interactions. For the confident guys, you will see a spike in the number of people you interact with on a daily basis. For those who are less self-assured, you will develop comfort for talking to anyone, which will lead to higher percentages of positive female communication. I've added a few tips that I've noticed to make the game more effective, and after playing several times with my fellow Plutocrats, we all agree it's something worth putting into practice.
Go!
That's what the game is entitled, and it's pretty much sums up the whole thing. It's best played with at least two other buddies to hold you accountable, but if you really want a challenge, play with yourself (no puns intended).
Getting Started
All you need for this game is a social setting or place where there are approachable women. The premise is as follows. Each of your friends will take turns, pointing out the most attractive and desirable women in a given area. Once one of your friends points someone out for you, it's now your task to go speak to her without hesitation. If you do hesitate, you have to do two push-ups right then and there. Then approach her anyway. Pretty bold, we know. The whole point is just doing it from the beginning because you are just prolonging the inevitable and causing an even bigger spectacle of yourself than if you would have just started a conversation. We recommend shaking hands before you start playing because we all know those guys who all of a sudden forget the rules or need a redo because their shoes are untied (even though they are wearing moccasins). Now you can change the punishment for not going to what suits your bros the best (like buy all the participants a shot), but the key is to make sure it doesn't leave them a loophole.
Keys of the Game
Now, notice that we didn't say you had to get her number or dance with her. All you have to do is talk to her; the rest is up to you. A 30-minute conversation is just as good as simply saying hello, and you will see your confidence grow as the game progresses. Now think about it, is it really that hard to walk up to an attractive woman and talk to her about anything that happens to pop into your head? We'll go ahead and answer that for you and say no. There are a million things you can comment about and then end things on your own terms. Additionally, it's important to congratulate all participants after they do step up, regardless of how well the interaction went. Even though it's not brain surgery, everyone likes a little positive reinforcement, and it makes sure that there is no pressure. Correction, less pressure. Don't misunderstand the most attractive and desirable women. We mean the ones that everyone in that particular area is gawking at. While everyone else is nervously waiting for their perfect moment to approach them, you and your friends will be the ones who confidently and nonchalantly address them at your slightest whim.
Get Better Interactions
Depending on how confident and sociable you are, it might be a couple of turns before you start finding what really works for you. We have a couple of suggestions that will speed up the process for you. The first is to pay attention to the things around you. Do you see her dancing? Make a comment about it. Did she just buy a drink? Ask her how much it was or if you can buy her the next one. Thinking outside of the box is one of the best attributes a person can have, and it especially pays off when you are generating attraction with the opposite sex.
The next is eye contact. How many times have you seen a ten walk past you? You both look away, and almost immediately, you both look back, then away again. Yes, double-takes are fun to comment and brag about if you like "what ifs," but when you are playing GO, this is the perfect opportunity to shift the power to your favor. When it's your turn, look at the women they have selected for you. When she catches your eye, immediately start making your way towards her without breaking eye contact. What you see might be a variety of things. Most will look away nervously and flash shallow glances at you, almost in disbelief as you walk to her. Others who are more confident might look at you the whole time, intrigued at what you about to say and do. In both cases, you have the power since you longer have to do that fake oh-hey-I-just-saw-you-right-here-even-though-we-both-saw-me-awkwardly-make-my-way-from-across-the-room dance that men and women do all the time.
Finally, leave! We cannot stress this enough. Don't wait around for the conversation to get sour; leave just as it is getting good, and tell her you will be back later. This is really effective in smaller, more intimate settings. She will wonder why you left so early and will be waiting for you whenever you decide to come back; lingering can ruin even the best conversation, so don't fall victim to it.
Beyond the Game
Sooner or later, you won't even need to commence the game formally; you will just see someone interesting and initiate contact with them. You will also see more collaborative efforts from friends as well. Instead of your friend pointing out one girl for you to talk to, he may ask you to accompany him to meet a group of people. This is really when it starts getting fun because it becomes about meeting new people instead of just random talks. If you haven't already started getting their contact information, here is generally where you really see a spike in the quantity that you receive after a night out.
After a while of consistently getting contacts with exceptional women, you will notice that it's really an interview process when you talk to them. You know that you're a catch and bring something to the table, so now you can see if she's up to YOUR standards. If she's rude and dismissive, don't stand there with your tail in-between your legs. Cut her off, end the conversation, and begin talking to another as soon as you get negative vibes. Once you realize that you do not have to beg for attention or her favor, the game has truly served its purpose, and you can talk to anyone you please. Good Luck.