You see them on TV, you see them at home. They'll be here tomorrow, and they've been here since Rome. What is it with these women of the night that entrances men and sometimes other women? Why is it that more and more men find themselves wanting or testing them out? Well, today, we will break down the 304 code and see what's the real root.
They're Accessible
Let's face it; women are elusive creatures. The more beautiful and attractive they are, the harder it is to catch them. For lazy men or men who aren't normally accustomed to that level of beauty they quickly find themselves in a game they are not equipped with or willing to play. Strippers, prostitutes, and pornstars often have that same level of physical unattainability that men desire so badly but can be obtained by anyone... with money. For some, it's easier to earn money than to get swag. These men figure they can skip spending the money they would on a date, expensive clothes, and the whole courting process and pay upfront for what they really want. These girls recognize this and actually make a very lucrative living off of them. They often say they are just the same as regular "bougie" girls, just more honest about the transaction. This is, in some cases, true but is far from the rule because the real difference is self-worth.
Down-to Earth Personalities
It's weird, but girls that get around are... kinda cool. I don't mean cool as in hip, but cool as in very low maintenance and easy to be around. Obviously, this comes from being around many men and the cats already out the bag, so to speak. Men can say just about anything under or above the sun to a stripper. The same goes for any girl that is already known for sexual favors. The acts that these women perform frequently almost force a humility that is still very foreign to most men, especially in women of that physical caliber. Sometimes this is a welcome change after dealing with some of their female counterparts, who are just as attractive but not nearly as easy to talk to. They are frequent in celebrity circles because they are also some of the few people not bewitched by fame since they will do just the same thing for an unknown person with money. Sadly, frequent viewers of this type begin to think that only these women are that "real." Unbenounced to them, a plethora of gorgeous career women exist with the same personalities but much higher self-esteem.
Their Story
Almost 100% of the extremely sexually active women have some story that gives reason to their behavior (but usually doesn't excuse it). Rather it is lack of finances to survive or sexual abuse from an early age, these stories can warm some of the coldest hearts to at the very least understand where they are coming from. Here, almost any man can fall victim depending on her sincerity (and physical desire for her). Here is where the big decision is made.
There are two schools of thought on this one:
The first says that experienced women make the best housewives because they have already seen the world and select few girls who actually know exactly what they want.
The second school (The Old School) is simply don't turn a "hoe" into a housewife. This school recognizes that everyone has a past, but her past will continue to haunt you two for as long as you live; plus, at the end of the day, she CHOSE to continue making bad decisions.
It takes a pretty big ego to shoulder the weight of being with a girl that would get with anyone, but even more to shoulder the possibility that she may continue her tendencies. At the end of the day, a man has to look himself in the mirror and know his threshold. Personally, a girl who has slept with dramatically more people than I have is more than I can handle. I can deal with a few more or a few less (definitely a lot less is preferred), but I know that we all have our periods of exploration. This is also why rock stars and porn stars get together so often because their body count is oftentimes very similar.
Men and women both have desires, but it seems that those who fall into this category all want a shortcut. Short is the perfect word to describe it because once that moment of bliss is over, things can start getting pretty ugly. Personally, there are too many other women that don’t bring so much drama into the picture to date, but if you don’t mind at least you know what you’re getting into.